Get help if you think you might be an abuser
If you are concerned about your behaviour or the behaviour of someone you know, there is support available. The Respect Phone line is an anonymous and confidential helpline for men and women who are abusing their partners and families. It is open Monday to Friday 9am to 8pm. The helpline also takes calls from partners or ex-partners, friends and relatives who are concerned about perpetrators. A webchat service is available Wednesdays, Thursdays and Fridays from 10am to 11am and from 3pm to 4pm. Telephone: 0808 802 4040
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Get help if you think you might be an abuser
Recognising harmful behaviour is an important first step. This page offers information, accountability-focused support, and pathways to help you make safer, healthier choices.
If you are an employer
Employers play a key role in creating safe workplaces. This page provides guidance on supporting employees affected by abuse, understanding responsibilities, and responding appropriately and sensitively.
Support someone you know
Supporting someone experiencing abuse can feel overwhelming. This page offers practical advice on how to listen, respond safely, and help without judgement or pressure.
Getting a court order to protect you or your child
Legal protection can be an important step toward safety. This page explains court orders, how they work, and what to expect if you’re seeking protection for yourself or your child.
Understanding whether someone has an abusive past
Patterns of behaviour matter. This page helps you understand warning signs, common myths, and what to consider when assessing past behaviour in a safe and informed way.
General advice and information
If you’re unsure where to start, this page provides clear, accessible information about abuse, relationships, and available support options.